Wednesday, March 29, 2017

An Open Letter to the Girl My Boyfriend Cheated On Me With

One of the biggest fears women have being in a relationship is being cheated. At least I, I always feared that would happen in my relationship. But I trusted my boyfriend like no one else, and I was sure that our love was stronger than any passing attraction, but it was not.

One day I discovered that he was unfaithful to me, he had deceived me and I could not allow myself to follow him. Finding out about things was difficult, but time has healed all the wounds, and today I want to tell the following to the girl who got between us:

Open letter to the girl with whom my boyfriend cheated on me
I know your name. I know who you are. I knew it from the moment you entered his life, and from that moment I could not get you out of my head, but for your sake, I will not say your identity. We've never met in person, but I know you also know who I am. My boyfriend cheated on you. You knew him through social networks, so you should have known that I existed; That he was not alone.

I could tell you that I congratulate you, that you won, or any kind of cliché of those who never genuinely say, but I will not. I just want to say thank you. Thank you in spite of the fact that you caused me so much pain, that you took my relationship, that you were selfish and only thought about your happiness.

Maybe you think I hate you because you did what all women fear that they do, but no, you've actually done me a great favor. You took a load off me that for a long time I did not have the courage to do myself. Thank you for releasing me. Thank you because I have saved myself from a future full of pain and many lies. Thanks to what happened I could see things from a different perspective.

Thank you for giving me a good reason to say goodbye to the biggest obstacle I've had in front of me. I always believed that the relationship I had with him was the best, but I did not realize all the problems that existed between us, problems that for a long time did not allow me to advance. Thanks to you, I was able to open the way to a better future.

Thank you for taking the blame, for giving me a reason to leave and start from scratch. If you had not gotten into our relationship, I would not have been able to get away without feeling the remorse that, on many occasions, makes you come back.

Thank you for reminding me that I deserve more than a relationship full of lies and deceit. And of course, I do not deserve to live any emotional abuse or the trauma of the experience of knowing that he sleeps with you.

Thank you for showing me that my dad was always right when he told me that relationship was not worth it, that he was not the man I deserved. And thank you for that I have now recovered the real friendships that I left aside to be with him.

Thank you because now I know there are better ways to spend my time and my tears: I know there are people who deserve to be in my life, and he is not one of them.

Thank you for giving me the opportunity to fall in love again, to have another first date, another first kiss; To have a new relationship. I still do not know if things will work and will be the man I spend the rest of my life with, but I know that if everything ends, there will always be more opportunities.

Thanks to you and him, now I know what things I will not allow in a relationship again. I know the man I want to have by my side.

Thank you finally because now I know that you can not enjoy happiness without having known the pain. Without your interference in our relationship, I would not have realized all these things. Thanks to you, today I am a new person.

Sincerely,

The girl they cheated on

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